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Rising incomes mean many Iraqi men marry multiple wives

Polygamy is growing among Iraqis as the men who indulge in it cite both progressive and Islamic justifications.

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An Iraqi bride prepares to go to her wedding party in Baghdad, Jan. 4, 2007. — Getty Images/Sabah Arar

BAGHDAD — Hashem (a pseudonym), told Al-Monitor, “I married a widow who works as a schoolteacher and lives in the city of Karbala. I did so because I needed a woman from the same academic and cultural background as mine, as I was fed up with my illiterate wife.”

Hashem said that he graduated from the Arabic department at the University of Baghdad in 1982 and then married his cousin while living in the countryside on the outskirts of Baghdad.

“After 2003, my monthly salary increased and my living situation improved. Later on, I met a female colleague and we agreed to get married,” Hashem said, adding bluntly, “My first wife does not know I have a second wife, but my new wife knows that I am married and she understands the circumstances that drove me to marry a woman who is not of my level.”

Although Hashem, who is a teacher, said he married a woman who does not share his educational level, he has four children with her and he is proud of them.

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